‘I have a friend in her late 30s who lives with, and has children by, a man in his mid-60s.
He is paunchy with grey chest hair and not especially rich.
They have certainly proved a talking point among my single women friends.
‘I almost wept when I read her blog about going to a wonderful party hoping to meet someone,’ my friend Ruthie explained. You know you are being unrealistic and that it won’t happen — yet when it doesn’t, you can’t help being disappointed.’Ruthie is 47 and one of the most attractive women — of any age — that I know.
I own a lovely two- bedroomed cottage with a beautiful garden, which I enjoy, but night after night I sit on my own watching TV. Which is why online is increasingly regarded as the place where over-40s will have the greatest chance of success.
Sadly, yes, according to Dr Bernie Hogan, a research fellow at Oxford University.I’ve been told they cry off as they have met someone more suitable.’Some older women may be missing out on the chance of finding love, she thinks, because, bruised and rejected in earlier relationships, they lack the confidence and persistence to keep dating until they find a match.After scores of dodgy dates, Cory found Kevin Parrott: ‘On our first meeting, he handed me his card,’ she recalls.The woman, who is divorced but says she would love to be married again, describes herself as being ‘on the wrong side of 45 with a brace of kids’ and bewails her place in ‘relationship no-man’s land’, condemned to be alone for the rest of her days.Her outpourings, which convey with unflinching honesty the huge difficulties older women can face finding a man, have caused quite a stir on women’s internet chat forums. Sitting at the bar is a great way to do this, even if you're alone! Get his recommendation on which fish or vegetable to buy. Or play into his DNA of helping a damsel in distress by asking him for gambling tips. Standing in line at the gourmet food vendors most stadiums have now is a good time to strike up a conversation about the game or the food. Best music bets are jazz, blues and good ole' rock and roll. Lisa Copeland is known as the expert on over 50's dating.