Ironically, the more they gave their children, the less influence they exerted over them. As young people started spending less time with their families and more time with one another, they created their own culture.
Petting was part of it, and helped prepare kids for a world that was changing faster than their parents could keep up with. By the 1920s, more than three-quarters of American teens attended.
Scott Fitzgerald warned that “none of the Victorian mothers . The 1922 edition contained a chapter on “The Chaperon and Other Conventions”; by 1927 it had been retitled “The Vanishing Chaperone and Other New Conventions”; and by 1937, “The Vanished Chaperone and Other Lost Conventions.” That certain conventions had disappeared did not mean that courtship had devolved into a free-for-all.
Rather, having been brought together in schools, young people were developing their own codes. Read More: The Invention of Teenagers: LIFE and the Triumph of Youth Culture In 1925, Benjamin Lindsey attempted to explain the changes in attitude that he saw taking place.
In terms of the baseball metaphor, petting covered everything between first base and home plate.
“Mothers Complain That Modern Girls ‘Vamp’ Their Sons at Petting Parties,” At least one audience was guaranteed to take an interest: the petters’ parents.
Many of the cases that he describes in start with a date gone awry.
The proliferation of advice literature about the new “emotional” family offers evidence of their commitment to this project.
By the mid-1930s, 80 percent of women in professional families and nearly 70 percent of women in managerial families read at least one book on child rearing every year. Fathers, too, began buying these books and attending events like teacher conferences. They sent their children to school longer and allowed them a great deal more leisure than they themselves had enjoyed.
While most Europeans do not--only 29 percent of Germans, 37 percent of Danes, 47 percent of Swedes, 32 percent of the French, and 42 percent of Italians say they do so.
Americans have liberal views about public displays of affection.
A study on child welfare commissioned by the White House in the early 1930s found that outside school activities, the average urban teen spent four nights per week engaging in unsupervised recreation with his or her friends.