Next step: I'm not to be objectified/my eyes are up here pro-fem bullshit.
How does one get into the gay BDSM bottoming and leather scene?
Never get tied up in your own home by someone you don't know.
If you go to his or her place, always tell a trusted friend where you are going.
Seeking Answers Concerning Kink One shows up, SACK.
"Eighty percent of success is just showing up," someone or other once said.
If you're a tad shy and work better online, these contingents have Facebook groups or Fet Life pages you can join.
(Also: There are tons of gay guys out there into spanking, SPANK.
Great sex and a good friendship make up a solid foundation.
You're aware that nonmonogamous relationships are an option—and couples can explore nonmonogamy together.
"When I was first getting started, I found a local leather contingent that held monthly bar nights and discussion groups that taught classes for kinksters at any level.
It provided an easy way into the community, and it helped me meet new people, make new friends, and find trustworthy play partners.
Don't forget the motto 'safe, sane, and consensual,' and be sure to have a safe word!