When you start dating someone new, the number one thing you start thinking about is probably when you should make your relationship official. Wondering when to start calling that dude you’ve been hooking up with your boyfriend can be super stressful.If you say it at the wrong time, it can destroy any chance of a future relationship – but the same thing can happen if you wait too long. Well, a recent study done by both Zoosk and revealed something a little bit surprising about when to make things official.Why bend over backwards to make someone you barely know happy? A prime example of this is a guy who brings a girl flowers on the first date.
Any guy who loses interest in you for having casual sex “too soon” is not worth having around.So if I can talk about this with dudes, anyone can. Like I said, this might be a slightly awkward convo – there might be no getting around that. Would you rather be lame and sit around waiting to hear what he thinks or would you rather take the initiative and find out where his head is on your own? Here’s what to do: first of all, this conversation should happen in person, not through text messages, Facebook chats or even on the phone.Second of all, you should be relatively calm when you bring it up.The final milestone is when you know it’s official – whether you say it’s a serious relationship or not.Unscheduled Time Together When you start hanging out together without making plans in advance, you know things are getting serious. Other times you really like someone and it doesn’t work out, and you’ve probably wondered if there was anything you could’ve done differently.