About the only non-intrusive thing you CAN do is make solid eye contact wherever possible and quickly shoot them a friendly smile, without actually saying anything (since she can't hear anyway).
If you get a good return look from her then you might have a play, but I usually store these up and wait to act on a similar positive read next time, not immediately.
You can try saying something clever to them, and if they see your lips moving will usually tear the headset off and ask "what?
", but their annoyance at having to do so is apparent and this immediate negative posture is not easy to overcome.
People are in a different frame of mind at the gym and often broadcast a variety of nonverbal "stay away" signals that only the boldest dare challenge.
However, after a little experimentation and some intense pondering I think I may have identified a few nuggets hiding amidst this apparent wasteland, such as: 1) If they are locked-up in their own little i Pod universe, they are most likely out of reach as far as a DIRECT approach is concerned.
I reflected on how the gym represents a kind of "so-near-yet-so-far" deal when it comes to meeting women because while they may be right there prancing around covered in sexy sweat, the environment never really seems appropriate for meeting and flirting around as it does in a nightclub.Link it up with something specific about that girl (give her some private, cutesy name like "ab-work Annie" in your own head) to form a mental association, and then file this scrap of info away into your memory bank.Some of you will be better at this than others, what can I say?2) Have one loaded in the chamber and ready to go at all times.Your chances with ladies at the fitness center will almost always seem to arrive out of the blue…when your instincts tell you that you have an interested female nibbling on your line, then that's the time when you must surrender reason to those instincts and take action.