Korean men on the other hand are conservative and insecure.
They don’t usually want a liberated woman as westerners would perceive it.
Once they get over their initial shyness, you will find that many Korean men will want to ask you out or just to get to know you better.
Foreigners are not THAT common here, so they are all very curious about foreign women, especially western women.
It’s best to visit one of these surreptitious little coffee shops with a Korean girlfriend because they’ll know best how to find them.
Here’s a good conversational reenactment:*Door bell rings.*Korean Boy: Oh! Stupid or not, we value our relationship and seek to make it stronger. *Puts a fried egg on top/or adds pepper.*Korean Boy: This is like the third day so far that I’ve eaten the same thing. Isn’t it time we just dressed comfortably for once? Can’t I wear the nice khakis/cargo pants I normally wear to school/work?? Don’t you understand that I want you to be the best-looking, handsomest man tonight??
For the Western woman, Korea contains so much water, but rarely a drop to drink.
The average western man in Korea becomes an Asiaphile overnight because Korean women tend to be flirty and appeasing, and they wear tight clothes.
However, my answers pretty much correlate to the native Korean perspective to a certain degree. We spare no expense to pay the restaurant bill, put our jacket on you when it’s cold or rainy, and get you the best gifts on your birthday and Valentine’s Day (NOTE: Native Koreans don’t provide gifts on Xmas, but Ko Am’s do). By the way, why are your socks and shirts lying all over the floor??
We even agree to wear “couple outfits” to prove our loyalty and show the public we are taken…Korean Boys like to be Babied It’s not as bad as it sounds. *Pushes Korean Boy out of the way and starts washing dishes.*Korean Boy: Umm… Korean Boy: Well I just got home an hour ago an…*Pushes Korean Boy out of the way and picks up laundry.*Sooni/Lisa: I swear! Let me know when you’re done and I’ll take you out for drinks. Let me call up my girlfriends and let them know we’re hanging out tonight! Drum roll please and more reenactment…Sooni/Lisa: Sweetie, we’re going to hang with my friends tonight and I want you to wear something nice.
Some young college boys moonlight in coffee houses catering to women looking for a fling.