When I first started inquiring among my virtually Victorian circle about how to go about this, my friend Patty said, "I feel funny giving directions; it's like telling the cab driver what route to take…and I'm not really sure how to get there anyway." Fortunately there are bolder, more assertive women out there—women who don't plan their outfits during sex—and they were willing to tell me exactly how they got their men to be much, much better in bed.
Here, their advice on how to make over…You know those movies where the young couple is having sex for the first time and it's pretty much the guy lifting the girl's skirt, neither of them looking at each other, and then he sticks his thing in and…it's over? I once practically had a guy tell me he was done while I was unlocking my front door for us to go into my apartment.
I told him to go ahead and finish by himself." This was a win-win for the now satisfied couple: "While he waited to get geared up for another go, he focused on me for some serious foreplay.
By the time we got to round two, he was ready to go the distance."The flip side of this coin can be just as troubling.
Focus on foreplay first and letting her enjoy the fact that you are giving her this kind of special attention.
Older women tend to prefer men with experience, because they want a solid and stable relationship and don’t want to waste time teaching a new guy the ropes.
They already went through a number of relationships that obviously failed, so they will want to avoid stuff like that again.
But how would someone even know if you’ve had any experience with relationships or not?
I wonder if I can wear my new Club Monaco skirt with a white shirt and boots?
It's never a good sign when your mind has left the bed and gone into the closet. Well, you can throw him back into the dating pool, you can suffer quietly, or you can take the bull by the tongue/hand/leg/etc. Let's get something straight: Making a guy better in bed is actually about making sex better for . Of course, some women are better at asking for what they want than others.
So what I suggest is that you find girls who are 18–24 years old to date, who won’t generally mind if you’re new to this sort of thing.