This is a bit of a subconscious thing with men, and although we think we want to spend the night at your place after a first date, in the cold light of the morning after we will be relieved that it didn’t happen.Forget Facebook – If you want to let your friends know how much you loved that latte on the way to work this morning, or share a photo of the most adorable kitten playing a guitar that’s well and good.
Here are a few tips to get you moving in the right direction.
You need to show her you’re mature and not some school boy just looking for a quick sexual experience to run and tell your friends about. You need to be able to hold your end of a conversation.
You don’t need to tell her you’re older than your years, but you do need to act like a man. Yes, she wants you to tell her how hot she is, but she also wants to talk to you over dinner, during a walk, or lying in bed after you’ve made love.
Retain a bit of mystery and avoid sending him a friend request until you’ve got to know each other better. Pay attention to the introductions – We guys are extremely territorial (even though we may not know it) and once we’ve come to the conclusion that this is the woman we want, we’ll start saying things like “This is my girlfriend, Sarah”.
Once he has started calling you his girlfriend, babe, woman, or even his other half, he won’t stop.
If your date becomes your boyfriend then there will be plenty of opportunities for both of you to let your hair down.