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Welcome back to The Attraction Doctor Last week, I discussed why women can't find a "good" man (here).In that article, I explained my hypothesis that women are stuck in a double-bind between what they are told through modern social norms and their own biological motivation.We are all motivated to seek out rewards and avoid punishments (Skinner, 1974).When rewards outweigh punishment, people perform behaviors.So, until a new equilibrium is reached in these evolving social norms, men have difficult choices to make.

These are the guys who are often labeled "players", "macks", and "pick-up artists".With divorce a very real (and punishing) possibility, these men may also choose to think carefully before committing.3) Holding High Standards - yet other men continue to hold high standards for both themselves and their partners.They invest in their own attractiveness, value, and success.Men successful with this strategy attempt to find an honest and faithful partner, who respects their needs, and is grateful for their contributions (for more, see here, here, and here).Again though, men pursuing this strategy also report the need to stay vigilant for their partner's waning attraction, signs of cheating, and being taken for granted (much as women in "traditional" relationships do).Furthermore, they do so in a situation where women's own social instruction may reduce the very characteristics that many of these men desire.

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