Your kids will resent it and may even end up holding a grudge against him. If your presence at the game would mean the world to your child, find an alternate time to be with your boyfriend. If you've taken it slow and developed the relationship over time, breaking up can be hard for both you and your children. Sit down with your kids, explain the situation, and listen to their concerns.
Like maybe when they are spending the weekend with their Dad or are away on a camping trip. And give them and yourself time to heal before jumping back into the dating pool.
If your new man isn't willing to wait, then he will have little patience for anything else. Give yourself time to really get to know this new man.These tips can help you get started on the right foot... But this is your life and you are the one who gets to live it, not someone else. As a single mom, it's easy for your whole life to be wrapped up in your kids.If your kids are young, just imagine how many years you'll be out of the dating scene before they leave home. Don't expect your kids to be overjoyed when you first start dating. Explain that you love them, but you also like to spend time with your friends (just like they do). And as the adult, you get to make the decisions and not your kids. But they shouldn't be the main topic of conversation during your date.Nobody likes a pushover, so if your date tells you he or she has planned an evening at a sushi restaurant and you don’t eat fish, or they want to hang at a cocktail lounge but you don’t drink, speak up.It’ll only look strange if you tell them all that you’re already seated and waiting to order. If your date asks what you’d like to eat, drink, or share for dessert, don’t say “I don’t care, what do you want? Obviously, you want to look your best, but a first date isn’t the time to take those new stilettos out for a road test, or wear that dress that’s a little tight. Because first dates are anxiety-filled enough and being uncomfortable in your clothes only makes it worse.A true gentleman won't push too hard and will respect your feelings. If the relationship has long-term possibilities, then taking it slow won't hurt. When you're caught up in the excitement of a new relationship, you might not realize that all that cuddling and kissing isn't appropriate in front of a young audience.