Yes, the initial game is much the same, but if you are planning to take it to the next level and get involved there are some things you need to be prepared for.
Let’s address the elephant in the room right at the start – a lot of people automatically assume when they see a Western man dating Asian women she is either A) After a green card or visa, or B) Is poor and looking for security/wealth. A lot of the Asian women who come to the West with the boyfriends/husbands do in fact fit this category, but by no means all of them have an agenda.
It is an app that was originally designed for Americans to hook up: You match, you exchange a few jokes, you set up a date. In Asia, since hooking up and one-night stands are not widely accepted (the most common profile sentence is "If you are looking for hook-up swipe left), things move much slower.
You need to spend more time chatting and based on my experience, it often leads to nothing.
I decided to write this article on dating Asian women to clear up some misunderstandings and ideas people have, as well as to give some advice for those who are thinking about it or who are dating an Asian woman.
Instagram is an awesome way to meet girls online, but it is also the one that requires the most efforts.
After a few messages exchanged, she or you will get bored, and then you forget about her because you've got 10 new matches.
- Lots of competition from other guys - Hard to keep a long and meaningful conversation - You need to be able to type fast on a mobile phone - Tourists are often labeled as "not serious" and ignored - A lot of girls will match with you yet they won't reply your messages - Superficial: Being good-looking is the number one factor of success (a nicely written profile is number 2) The Asian Dating website is part of the Cupid network and as such, it benefits from a huge database of girls in every country.
While I live in Indonesia on a permanent basis I have also traveled extensively in Singapore, Malaysia, Thailand, Cambodia, Laos and The Philippines over the past 8 years. We all like different things, but I’m assuming because you clicked an article with the headline “Dating Asian Women 1o1” you are at least interested in the idea of doing so.
I’ve also dated women from most of these countries during my time here before settling down with Mrs. It doesn’t take a brain surgeon to figure out that there is widespread interest in Asian women from men around the world – they’re feminine, intelligent and extremely gorgeous, so why wouldn’t there be? Dating Asian women is a little different from dating Western women.
As a result, I get asked a lot of questions about what it’s like to date an Asian woman.