Crafting the perfect intro message when you’re writing to a stranger on an online dating site is such a daunting task.
I’m notoriously bad at it, a fact that I’ve shared publicly at comedy shows, because if I can’t get dates out of my hilariously bad messaging skills, I might as well get laughs.
but I don't think it's just because the way I groove because even some of the men will ask if I can teach them how I do what I do.
Yet what's odd on top of that, I don't see that I am...
Rather than presenting the other person a single line that they can either accept or reject wholesale, you might fair better if you get them actively engaged with a miniature guessing game and pull a plot twist on them at the end.
Creativity can be the difference between a Yes and a No.
I'm quite sure that most of them just enjoy my exuberance even if they're dancing right up on me. Ending with a 'Hope to hear from you' or 'Let me know if you'd like to chat'.5.