There are nine warning signs worth heeding when you're out there dating. They Feed Off The Clues In Your Profile Don't mention your income or where you work.You can say you're a nurse or an executive but don't mention where or how much you make.Be aware of sounding needy and lonely in your profile. What They Tell You About Themselves Often, they will tell you they were born in England to a British mother and Italian father.It makes you perfect prey for scammers looking to hook you into their scams. They Live Outside The US These men will often say they live in metropolitan cities in the US but their work takes them elsewhere in the world. and, of course, to wait for him because he can't wait to meet you. Scamming Women Is Their Job Most of these men are from developing countries. Men there who are willing to con you have learned that in a couple of hours a day, they can easily communicate with women in the US, find their weak spots and make a fortune. They give themselves romantic names like Valentino and Antonio.Once the deal is done, they'll wire your money back to your bank account, they tell you. They Have Excuses For Never Being Able To See You They want to see you so badly and even tell you they are making arrangements to travel in a month or two.Never, ever give them access to your financial resources! Yet as the date arrives, suddenly they aren't available and the date gets moved back over and over again. within days you will see a listing pop up with their name and phone number. Move men to the phone and keep calls to a minimum of one to two, then meet ASAP. Thousands of men and women get caught up in these scams.They are objective and can give you an honest opinion of what they believe is going on. The World Wide Web has certainly changed the way we live, work, shop, travel, communicate and date over the last couple of decades.
Sometimes the men in the picture don't even consistently look the same from shot to shot. They Use Romance We love romance and these men use it by sending you the most beautiful poems you've ever heard. If you've lost a close member of your family, don't be surprised if they tell you they have too.I was walking on California's Stinson Beach in August 2009 when I struck up a conversation with a woman who seemed utterly delightful.Captivated, I invited her to dinner at my house that evening. While I ate my dinner, she drank hers — then refused to leave. My acquaintance of 12 hours bizarrely insisted that we were living together.This is another HUGE TIP OFF you're dealing with a scammer. You Can't Find Any Record Of Them Try searching on Google for your Valentino or Antonio. They want you to believe they are real and the phone company made a huge mistake with their information. If a man tells you he'll be out of the country for a month or two, tell him to give you a call when he gets back. Situations like this can leave you feeling emotionally devastated.A tip off here is they will list their job in the residential white pages, which few Americans do. Don't get pulled into a fantasy relationship that will rip your heart in two and wipe you out financially if you're not careful. You might find you have a hard time trusting men again.First, you won't give it to him and second, to call me so you have the support I know you would need to break contact with him. This was his way of making her feel safe enough to go through with it, even though it wasn't true. A piece of her didn't want to believe he was scamming her. Because he had captured her heart and she really wanted to help him. Let me assure you these women would have said the same thing. Other women have not been so lucky and have lost thousands of their hard earned dollars to men they thought loved them.