In one, scientists asked each of 190 students to complete a Web-based survey in which they were shown 10 traits, one at a time.
After seeing each trait, subjects would indicate whether that trait also described them.
“Once you start this process of saying, ‘Ah, it’s not going well,’ it’s like an avalanche basically,” Norton said.
In the second reinforcing experiment, scientists surveyed two groups of online daters.
They end up being disappointed again.” Little white lies add to the inflated expectations.
“One of the reasons people are so optimistic when they read these things is because everybody kind of shades their profile a little bit more positive then maybe it should be,” Norton said.
And as soon as I find that one thing, then things start to cascade so everything else I learn about you suddenly now feels like more evidence that we are dissimilar and we don’t get along,” Norton said.
Remember bits of information about a person and try working them into conversations which shows interest. Keep a good hygiene, as bad breath and bad teeth are instant turn-off for potential dates. Women are more attracted to men who wear aftershaves and pheromone-based colognes such as 10 times. Thin or muscular people are preferred over overweight individuals.
The next time you log onto a dating site, you might want to add “mysterious” to your list of desired traits, because the less you know about a potential mate the better.
These results also showed that getting to know a person is a real downer for romance.
The scores given to pre-dates were much higher than those for post-dates.
Some studies show that a women in not interested if she don’t return the call after two messages. Always try to maintain eye contact, as it is the primary and powerful tool for attracting a potential date. If your ex came your colleague then leave hopes, as it usually will not work. Women don’t fall in love easily, it will take 14 dates for them to fall in love.