Realizing that you were lied to, duped, conned and manipulated all along, is enough to send even a saint into a psychotic rage. This kind of emotional torture is exasperated by the Narcissists hot and cold routine.I think the hardest thing to get over is the deliberate mind fuck, the psychological warfare that the Narcissist uses to keep his victims emotionally invested in him. The mixed signals of I love you one day and hate you the next, has women and men not only questioning their sanity, but their sense of self-worth as well.
Depending upon the duration, the impact of such a union could have profound emotional, psychological, spiritual, physical and even financial effects on its victims.To a Narcissist, their partners are objects, a source of supply, nothing more.And coming to terms with the fact, that you meant nothing, to someone who meant so much to you, is incredibly painful.This validation seeking can go on for a long, long time.There is nothing more soul destroying and degrading than jumping through hoop after hoop trying to prove your worth, to someone who will never see or acknowledge it. Once they get inside your head it’s almost impossible to get them out.A Narcissist will take no responsibility for anything.