Little did I know, I was about to stumble on a real goldmine. After countless of hours on my computer, I finally found a safe haven for folks like myself, a true married dating community. I found this site to be very effective at controlling their membership.The women I started chatting with were genuine; we could relate to each other’s experience of trying to re-discover that lost spark outside the confines of our respective marriages.Don’t get me wrong, my love for my wife didn’t just disappear into thin air.I guess I just wanted something new…I wanted that new spark and excitement. We have kids together, a joint bank account and a real friendship.It can be done with the utmost discretion and attention to one’s privacy.
Unless your partner is agreeable to an “open” marriage, discretion becomes the better part of valor. I was uncomfortable hitting the local bar scene for fear of being seen in a compromising situation.
You see, growing up as a child, I was always taught that marriage was bliss.
That was true for sometime, but only at the beginning. We couldn’t agree on vacation destinations, home improvements or the color of our towels. there isn’t much to say as it didn’t seem to exist anymore.
I have spent countless of hours browsing various dating sites for married people – I have been scammed, tricked and fully letdown…there are so many sites out there supposedly catering for the married but dating crowd, but how do I know that they are legitimate?
I have been dating while married for the past 14 years.
In fact, I hope that you join me and hundreds of other people, both men and women, who are looking for a discreet affair in and the surrounding areas.