For me she is everything that I have ever wanted in a partner for life and she feels the same way.We hope that soon we will marry and begin our life together. When you make the initial contact if it is just for casual sex that you are interested in please be upfront about it to save time on both sides. If you are straight forward it allows both of you to begin with the same expectations of sex. Make the most of it by seeking his opinion on important matters concerning career growth and better financial management.It will send across the signal that a valuable role to play in your life. If it’s honesty and directness you are seeking, know that many older woman come out way ahead in this area. Pay for her on the first date, even if she offers to pay her share. Don’t say you want to see her again if you are full of sh*t. And don’t do it because you are looking for a mommy. Don’t keep pestering her because it will come to an unhappy conclusion or blocking you from her site. Many of us are confident, used to being alone and on our own, so don’t feel that we want to be with you every minute of the day, because we don’t. Many of us had much experience with BS and we know when it’s coming at us.
If you have these things in place, age will become a non-issue.There is something of a fascination with this creature in modern media, the toyboy-seeking sexual predator, and it seems to have led to an increased acceptance of the age gap between younger men and older women. A cougar, roughly put, is a woman who dates a younger man – whether done in a serial fashion or as a one off doesn’t really matter.It’s the people around them who decide whether the term is an appropriate one or not. If the woman offers to call you first, know that she is not afraid of making the first move and doesn’t conform to the traditional old ways. And ask yourself if you want to be with someone who has totally misrepresented herself. If in any way you meet and you see that she’s got the plastic surgery going on, has lied about her age, then you know where you are at with her.