I felt beyond "used." I had to give plasma so we could go on this crappy outing and then I got sick so he proceeded to drink all the beer! ) I was very naive and I felt so embarrassed for him, that he thought that this was even remotely close to acceptable human behavior, that I downplayed the whole event and tried to pretend it had never happened. When I asked what the h--- he meant, he replied that in India, the women do all the cleaning, so I'd better get started. I did a summer internship at a museum years ago when I was in college.
Oh and BTW if the guy is half decent ...a 6-7 out of 10, he thinks he just needs to keep looking (like too many men he thinks there is a super model on POF that he just hasn't meet yet)... OMG, I could go on for days, telling horror stories from POF connection # 1 The married men # 2 The perverts and pigs only looking for sex, but say they are looking for long-term # 3 The physco that refused to stop calling my home, even when threaten with the police # 4 No doubt like the gaga video where they show POF being used in a prison, i would bet money inmates have full access.
That was 17 years ago and I still can remember how sick I felt. I met one from India and after we had coffee one afternoon, and he invited me back to his place.
No cell phone back then, so I was stranded out at the reservoir with a loser who clearly had no respect for me. There was a huge filthy mess of dishes in the kitchen, and a mountain of dirty laundry in the bedroom."You can start wherever you want," he said, and flicked on the TV.
He was seriously the perfect catch, so I was pretty psyched.
I walked in looking for him when an older woman approached me.
I was so shocked by all this all I could do was sit frozen and hope it was a bad dream.