Here are some examples of the easy, more challenging, and (for some people) more extreme levels of dirty talk that you can engage in with your significant other.
Whether you’re starting out with dirty talk for the first time ever, or you’re starting to have sex with a new partner and just want to slowly test the waters, the following phrases have you covered.– That feels amazing baby– Come sit on my lap, love– Mmm… – I’m getting so turned on/wet/hard– Tell me what you like/if this is too hard/when you’re about to come– You look so beautiful/handsome/gorgeous/manly right now– What do you feel like doing to me?
I fucking love you and your perfect/delicious/sexy big/little (body part).”“I love having sex with you” transforms into “I love it when you grab the sheets when you’re about to come.
I love how your breath pauses when I put my mouth on your (insert partner’s preferred name for their genitals here).
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As you might know, if you’ve been reading my work for a while, I have a tendency to gravitate to fairly polarized sex.One good way to test the waters (and to get more comfortable) with your partner is to send them some naughty text messages to see how they respond.Read on to the “Dirty Talk: Beginner Level” section for some examples of places to start, or go with something from the heart (or crotch).A good rule of thumb with dirty talk is to tell your partner what you want to do to them/with them before you’re doing it, and then while you’re doing it, tell them what you’re liking about it.For example, maybe your partner has a relatively high sex drive but their engine only gets revved up when they’re already thinking about sex. Again, this will all be based on what you authentically desire in the moment, but saying something along the lines of “I’m trying to get work done but I can’t stop thinking about last week when we were 69’ing and your delicious juices were flowing into my mouth” could be the thing that pushes them over the edge to jumping you.A few examples of dirty talk phrases that use multi-sensory descriptions:– I love how you taste/smell.