When to start dating after a break up

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Despite the fact that many people believe having a rebound can help them get over their ex, it’s not the best method, and I don’t recommend it.You see, after a breakup, you need to feel the loss of the other person, you need to mourn the relationship, and you need to heal and work on yourself.Dating someone before you’re ready is just cruel and thoughtless if you ask me.Nothing is worse than when people date before they’re ready, because they’re almost always emotionally unavailable.It simply depends on the person and the situation at the end of the day.You shouldn’t have expectations that you should get over a situation very quickly, simply because someone you know did, because that’s unrealistic and you shouldn’t compare.You see, many times people end up dating very quickly after a breakup, and perhaps even using people or having rebounds.And in the process, they see that those relationships or those dates never really lead to serious, long-term, or meaningful relationships where they shared connections on many different levels with someone.

Give yourself enough time to heal and recover from past experiences, and make sure that you’re emotionally ready and available so that you can find the type of love that you’re looking for.Otherwise, you’re just setting yourself up for failure, because no one can fall in love when they’re not ready or open to it.As well, you have to risk getting hurt, and although no one wants to feel pain or experience heartache, if you’re not willing to risk getting hurt by letting your guard down, then you’re likely not going to be able to fall in love.and at times, even using them as an empty rebound or fling before they’re ready to look for someone who actually has long-term and meaningful potential for them.Many people feel that having a rebound is simply the best method for getting over an ex.You need to have an open heart, an open mind, and you need to be willing to let your guard down so that you can fall in love with someone.

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